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Friday, August 27, 2004

I beg your pardon?

The ability to converse in text is great no doubt about that! But to converse over other form of mediums gets harder and tougher varying with the communication barriers involved. I know I am not qualified to give lectures nor theories most of us who have learnt in communication classes but this is just preoccupied thoughts in the wee hours of the morning.

The ability to see and speak to someone face to face may somewhat seem easy but to most it's hard. Now imagine public speaking. Yes indeed, some have natural talents instilled in them but everybody gets the jitters whether be it the first time or the hundredth time.

Comfortability is what I want to stress on. If you are really comfortable with the person you are talking with, you have degree or more like a level of understanding where you do not have to worry about jargons, bombastic words or explaining, that's interactivity! So what if the person is of different level than you? I have this theory that if both parties have different levels of intellectuality or be it knowledge, either one of the individual will form a subliminal/invisible filter of biasness where you/he have no intentions to get deeper into the conversation. It doesn't matter who is far superior or inferior, either one individuals will certainly form a cloak whereby they would not be bothered to go higher into the are which exceeds their personal comfort zone. Just mindless, useless and random thoughts after a good chat. ;)

Till my next self therapy...be good and stay well!


Your today is the tomorrow that you worried about yesterday. -Dale Carnegie-

You are worrying because you are analyzing. Worrying has become your habit. That's why you are not happy.

Uncertainty is inevitable, but worrying is optional.-unknown-


Currently listening to: How come, how long. Babyface
Am feeling: Cold

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